Tiny Love Stories: ‘Why Don’t You Have a Girlfriend?’
A Fateful Crosswalk “Why don’t you have a girlfriend?” my younger brother asks. “Everyone thinks you’re gay.” Panic consumes 14-year-old me. I pray and hear: “Find a girlfriend.” I date the most popular girl in high school until I graduate in 1983. The homophobia of that time leaves a deep scar, and I spend my…